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In Defense of Healthy Anger

Healthy Anger South Lake Union TherapyIn Defense of Healthy Anger

Anger is a topic that comes up a lot in conversation with my clients.  Specifically, the concern around the inability to effectively express anger is what comes up.  It’s a question of not being able to express anger and frustration at all until it reaches the level of blind rage at which point it comes out in all manner of destructive ways. Or at least there’s a fear that expressing anger at ALL will result in irreparable damage.  The image that comes to mind is one of a pressure cooker without a safety valve.  It eventually just blows.

I have to confess, as much as I like to pride myself on being pretty straightforward even in the face of conflict, I often find myself at a loss as to how to express negative feelings to those around me. Continue reading